What It Is To Be a Bear:
From the street the play yard looks
idyllic. The children are running
from sun to shade, happy at their play (or at least intent on it). The air is filled with high-pitched shouts and cries.
But up close where I am, leaning against
one of the stanchions of the front porch with my arms crossed, you can see the
faces of the individual toddlers. They
look vacant and shell-shocked to me. My
daughter Mara is out there by the sandbox.
It's her second day of preschool...
Doing the High Pony:
Mara asks me to do a high pony one
morning, and my gut response is to turn her down.
"I'm not too good at it," I say.
"You should ask your mother..."
Finishing the Bees:
Mara's kindergarten teacher Mrs. D. comes
up to my bellybutton when I'm standing, but who stands for long in her
classroom? Before you can say
“Jack Robinson” she’s got me squatting like a POW in one of the midget
chairs, facing Mara and the other six members of the Dark Green Group...
Defending Our Superheroes:
The feelings that play across the face of
my five-year-old son Josh are not hard to read.
He’s watching his favorite superheroes the Power Rangers, and the
sight of his pleasurable turmoil, mirrored so vividly in his eyes and mouth,
transports me back to my own childhood, when I spent hours devouring the
comic-book exploits of Superman, Flash, Green Lantern, and the Justice League
of America.
Nothing is more absurd on the surface than
the thought of these heroes we both love needing defense.
They seem awesomely self-sufficient.
The Power Rangers command great resources of combat know-how and
science. Superman could carry an
ocean liner through the air. Green
Lantern could floor an enemy with a fist made entirely of green energy.
And yet our superheroes are in
danger today...